Family can suck in The Bonfire October 7, 2020 5 hours ago, nigel99 said: Well he’s on his way back to the UK. Pretty much drove me out of my own home. Sunday I get my house back! I have spent the last few weeks at a friends house. My son also stayed with friends. I came home tonight to rubbish literally all over the kitchen can’t even use the stove as it’s piled with shit and rubbish strewn all over the kitchen floor. Pots with mould growing out of them. Dude, that's awful. Tag this in your memory files and refer back to it the next time he wants to take something from you that you don't want to give. And, crucially, DON'T GIVE IT. I know that some people believe that you should look after family no matter what. I could not disagree more. Some behaviours are unacceptable. It's up to you to decide where you draw the line.