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I have read alot of posts in here if you think Obama is going to be doing a good job, and if it is gonna work. Here is my question for this forum... If you were president elect, what would your moves be to fix the current issues facing out country at this time? Issues in existence being: current war status current economy Current in place Bush policies and probly a whole slue more I am not thinking of right this minute-feel free to point them out. I am curious what peoples moves would be-as hard as it is try to remain respectful of everyones' opinion here-I know that it is hard. Stay in the good spirit of SC. -Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

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1. yes. My hubby cheated a very long time ago, and I did it right back. So childish- ( He became JW later) 2 Forgetting b-day-etc etc... Hubby is a Jehovahs Witness. So I do not expect him to acknowledge it in the first place. 3. Gone for days w/lame excuse-Got some anyway-Yes-That took place a long time ago too. 10 years ago we stopped all the behavior that led to events like that, and we have never looked back. We have been happy together for 10 + years without that behavior. We have been together for 21 years, married for 18. 4 He has not ever publicly humiliated me ever. It is hard to work through betrayal. It took alot of letting go, and moving forward. We made a pact never to throw the past in each others faces. We were both wrong, and sick. Now we both walk with The Lord. He in his JW way and me in my Lutheran way. We dont even fight about that, I say if he is right, he can teach me his way, and if I am right, I can teach him. Working things out together is both of your job, if you want the relationship that much.-Caress

I will take that as a compliment!-Thank You!-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

Am I a BAD GIRL? Or What?-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I chose a nice guy. thats because I can definetly talk them into being naughty when I want it. That is once in a while. I like nice, respectful, and thoughtful all the time!

you are partially right. Now it is shipping, handling, and a processing fee, in some cases. It is a new name for generating revenue. My boss wanted to start charging a processing fee, I told her I think that is a bad idea. Just raise the price if you are going to do it. people would rather you be straight up with them then try to bullshit them with another fucking charge.-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

While I am definetly sure that Trophyhusband has his own opinion of your post, I have to say that I sure as heck do not want the bailout money paying for executive bonuses and trips. I do not want your family going without the necessities at all sir, but I am tired of bailing out the people who abuse money-our money. I am tired of getting their shit stuck in the american public 's lap. I want them to take responsibility for abusing the funds I bust my ass to provide. I have had it with the rich staying richer, and I am down here scratchin to survive while they live it up instead of fixing their fuck up. -Caress You can think I am an idiot-it is the spirit of SC-Carry on- I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I am passionate about my country too. I agree that alot of people(countries) poop on us after we help them. All we can do baby is stand up pull our pants and boot straps up and shake the shit off.-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I've been to his website and read some of the plans. You are asking us to speculate. I am just not one to do that. What do I think? I think some of it looks to be okay, other things make me go that may or may not work, and some things on there I need more uninterupted time to sit with, and really think about whether it has a chance in hell of bringing this rolling snowball(i.e. our lives spiraling out of control) into some kind of control. I think that snowball has yet to splat( all the shit to hit the fan) so we can sort it all out. Or it has splatted and we need to see who survived the snowball.(Who got hit with a bucket of shit and did not close their eyes)-Caress edited to say that you can think I am an idiot, it's okay-that is the spirit of SC-Carry on- I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

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SC is Speakers Corner. It is not here to get ya all upset, it is where Everybody can post their opinions, and some will agree and some wont. A couple of us just kinda thought you were pretty harsh w/the other poster thus the Holy Cow dude! statement from us. I was merely pointing out that you are letting it run/ruin your day. I was not meaning to be disrespectful of you at all. So please dont take it that way Okay. -Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

you are allowing opinion in SC to ruin your day? Quote downwardspiral,shropshire... +1 more I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

you can have sex, skydive and be responsible, its a very groovy time baby! Oh Yeah!

Quote I think its funny how people from other countries think they can comment with intelligence about another world leader (excuse me, THE world leader, since every other country is a second world country). Maybe it's their own socialistic country that pisses them off and inspires such hatred. We as the US give billions of $ away each year and yet the rest of the world still slanders us. Piss on them all. And the fact that someone from the UK can comment with such vehemanance pisses me off to no end. If it wasnt for the US they would be speaking German! Thats just my 2 cents! PS it is okay to think I am an idiot, that is the spirit of SC. Carry on- I know it makes you angry and pisses you off but it is the SC way. Foreign or not the right to disagree is there. Dont let it fuck up your day.-Caress

If anything, I wouldnt want anything withheld from the press. I do not like the reality that countless innocent lives are being lost either. He is not the only president that has happend under, but I am hoping and praying he will be the last. As much as that sounds like wishful thinking. -Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

Agreed. I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

Hate to break it to ya but you begin to die the day you are born-Life is not about braving the storm-its learning to dance in the rain. you shouldnt jump when you are poor- I'm not- it is a blessing when you have the cash and time baby-just like all of us. I have been waiting a long time and my day is coming for my AFF. Growing up means self control and patience-I think that was the point-Caress

Hi I have deleted everything but the kitchen sink and the capacity taken up by my e mail is 53%. I know that cant be right. any suggestions on how to fix that without creating a new account on dz.com? I aint ever going to do that.-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

It will and it is not all his fault either. I think there is alot going on that we are not being told. I have had 5 soldiers come home from Iraq to my church and tell of all the good things we are doing there. All the media tells us is all the gloom and doom stuff. Bush said in the beginning of that war that it would be long and hard road to walk on. and it has been just that and other shit happened that we did not anticipate. I.E. we thought it would become stable and it hasnt, insurgents continue to resist becoming united etc etc. (I know someone would have asked me to elaborate) Mortgage failure and loans that should not have been made came to a head in his presidency. Many are living beyond their means and the blame is falling on him. I dont think he had a pass or veto on those loans. I dont think the guy has a flippen clue how to fix the recession problem or even his own problems and he is relying on his staff members to pull a rabbit out of the hat. He came into the presidency with good intentions, and he is leaving with a mess that he did not have all the doing in. I have to accept my responsibility in this too. I dont own a home ( thank God) but I do have my cc balances pretty high because I live beyond my means, and I have no savings. That is my OWN fault. I voted for Obama. I want to see change come in many areas of government in this country. Not saying that other messes arent going to creep up on Barak too, I am having faith that he knows enough to be better prepared to deal with it and that the staff he appoints will be better equipped to deal with each situation as is comes. This country is treading on unknown territory, so lets move forward and in the famous words of HOOKNSWOOP - DON'T PANIC-THINK-Caress PS it is okay to think I am an idiot, that is the spirit of SC. Carry on- I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

QuoteAnd what if the rape victom has the baby but shortly after, decides she can't hack it and throws the kid in a dumpster? Is that still alright? --------------------------------------------------- dropping a baby in a dumpster is not okay at all. I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I am glad that they toughed it out too. I understand your passion for life completly. I just cannot accept forcing a woman to have a child conceived in rape or incest unless it is of their choosing. That is all that I am saying. Its my opinion.-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

QuoteIf you believe that abortion is murder, then what is the difference between a rape victom, a 14 year old, or a 30 year old slut, and why should one be allowed tto kill a baby while the others can not. You are not acknowleging the trauma. Rape is a desecration, violation, and brutal cruel act upon a womans' soul and spirit. I would hope and pray that no one whould ever have to bare a child from that act unless they chose to. I would also hope and pray that God would be merciful in that situation as well as yourself. I am not trying to argue or say you are not entitled to your opinion here, but have you ever thought about it in that way? I know that this situation cannot directly affect you, but what if it were your daughter or your wife, would you still feel that way?-Caress PS I have to leave now and I will be back later if you want to pm me, go ahead, otherwise I willhave to continue this thread later. I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I believe I answered that in my original post. In the cases of rape, or incest, the mother should be able to choose. Why would Palin even say something like that? That sounds pretty unconstructive for the campaign. Anyway Kallend thats how I feel about that. Its a really bad idea. I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I look like my dad-BIG TIME. According to my mom I look just like his mom. But I act like my mom. I spent more time learning from her though. My looks and faith in Jesus Christ came from my dad though. My kids look like their father. I am trying to have them not act like me though-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.