DZOregon

Obviously people cheat for other reasons than I listed. I was just cheated on, and am wondering what excuses people use to justify why they have or are cheating now. I understand it's not a reflection on me....but I'm just curious...my girlfriend used all of the above.

Cheating is not easy. It's actually quite difficult. The planning and covering that have to happen is difficult. Keeping two woman happy at the same time without either one knowing about eachother is a skill....

Is there something about this sport that makes more people justify cheating?. Life may be short, so they try and get ALL their needs met with more than one person. Why should they sacrifice and only get some of their needs met, when they can get all of them met with different people? Is monogamy societies burden on us?