brutal rejection... in The Bonfire September 10, 2015 My guess is that you looked a bit familiar to him in the website pics but he just couldn't place you, so he just shrugged off the slight feeling of deja vu. ...then he saw you in person and it all suddenly clicked. Maybe a specific mannerism or expression. He realizes that you're the girl who works with his wife! You know her but not him. He knows you only by sight, when picking his wife up, etc. You don't know her well ...only through casual day to day interactions. You do speak to each other, if only with polite, trivial banter. but you've never met her husband. Now, through a chance click on a website, you have! He's probably hoping that you didn't get a really good look at him and will forget the whole thing ever happened. ....or he's just a jackass.