metalslug 31 #1 March 9, 2004 A bit of a story... My grandmother has never done a skydive and has no association with skydiving at all, except perhaps for the simple pride that many doting grandparents have for their 'brave' grandsons and relatives that jump from aircraft. She's still in good health and expects to live a few more years.. but has already asked me if I can disperse her ashes over the DZ when the day comes. She turned 92 years old this year. Originaly from Germany, she has lived through two world wars and has spent the last 60+ years of her life in Kenya and South Africa. It is her wish that her ashes be scattered "...high over Africa. Anywhere in African skies will do." When I first read about ash release dives, it was my assumption that this tradition (if it is that) was more commonly carried out for people of significance in the skydiving community; people that had held a passion for skydiving for many years and had perhaps even made some significant achievements in the sport. Is this so ? ...or can anyone be scattered without 'tainting' a tradition ? Of course, there are alternatives to an actual skydive. I could just release the ashes from a hot-air balloon, microlite or the door of a plane, but there may be some practical issues about ash blowing in inconvenient directions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,116 #2 March 9, 2004 I think it's touching that she wants that, and even more touching that it's something you, uniquely in your family, can give her. I can't imagine a reason why it wouldn't be appropriate -- not all people who have their ashes scattered in the mountains were acclaimed mountaineers, not all people who have their ashes scattered at sea are famed yachtsmen. The only other thing is you can get her a tandem before then, too (my father made one at 85). Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
murrays 0 #3 March 9, 2004 If that's what your grandmother wants, that's what your grandmother gets. Take her up for a skydive on a beautiful day and release her.-- Murray "No tyranny is so irksome as petty tyranny: the officious demands of policemen, government clerks, and electromechanical gadgets." - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeded 0 #4 March 10, 2004 My Mom, born and raised in San Francisco, told me she wanted her ashes dumped from an "illegal" site thats pretty well watched being as its famous for suicides. Im doin it when the time comes. Thats what she wants, thats what she gets. I say go for it if thats what she wants and like Wendy suggested, if she's able, do a tandem. dropdeded------------------------------------------ The Dude Abides. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mjosparky 3 #5 March 10, 2004 I have been involved in ash dives for friends of, relatives of, and dogs of skydivers. If that is her wish then that is what should be done. SparkyMy idea of a fair fight is clubbing baby seals Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DBCOOPER 1 #6 March 10, 2004 Our cat Gravity who was named 18 years ago by someone not related to skydiving will get "released".Replying to: Re: Stall On Jump Run Emergency Procedure? by billvon If the plane is unrecoverable then exiting is a very very good idea. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
councilman24 36 #7 March 10, 2004 Hey, we let anybody make a skydive! Seriously, don't worry, it's not a problem. But when the time comes (at some very distant time in the future) get some advice from someone with experience.I'm old for my age. Terry Urban D-8631 FAA DPRE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #8 March 10, 2004 I like the idea of being packaged up in matchboxes and posted off for one last jump at every DZ I've been to. Why the hell shouldn't your gran end up at 13k... just because she's taken there by skydivers doesnt mean she has to have been one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slotperfect 7 #9 March 10, 2004 Your Grandmother definitely gets to have her wishes honored. She has made the request, there are no "rules" about who should or shouldn't, so go for it when the time comes.Arrive Safely John Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jbrasher 0 #10 March 13, 2004 The only rule is ANYONE who wants too! Besides if your a jumper you always have at least one jump left. Red, White and Blue Skies, John T. Brasher D-5166 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mardigrasbob 0 #11 March 14, 2004 check out this memorial skydive. Bob Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beowulf 1 #12 March 14, 2004 That is a really moving picture. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
riggerrob 558 #13 March 14, 2004 QuoteThat is a really moving picture. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Yes! At first glance the photographer's shadow looks like the spirit/ghost of the deceased. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chuckbrown 0 #14 March 15, 2004 It's even more moving when you see it in person. On a bright, crystal clear morning, the release will bring tears to your eyes even if you didn't know them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nightjumps 1 #15 March 15, 2004 Anyone on the planet; whether skydiver or not can show up at a dropzone and explain their loved one's wishes to have their ashes spread on a skydive. There is not a single skydiver I know who would not be honored to fulfill that last request. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jumpmunki 0 #16 March 16, 2004 i actually have tears in my eyes just thinking about anything like that Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smellysue 0 #17 March 16, 2004 I second that wayne if i go do that for me over what ever pond you swoop first....... i think it sweet that she thinks that much of you to ask you to do it she must really love you. if my other half asked me to do that id disobay the doctor and carry out his wish. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 259 #18 March 16, 2004 Quoteid disobay the doctor If you're dead why would what a doctor says matter? Why would a doctor say not to release ashes in freefall anyway? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mjosparky 3 #19 March 16, 2004 QuoteAnyone on the planet; whether skydiver or not can show up at a dropzone and explain their loved one's wishes to have their ashes spread on a skydive. There is not a single skydiver I know who would not be honored to fulfill that last request. Yea, what he said. SparkyMy idea of a fair fight is clubbing baby seals Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jumpmunki 0 #20 March 16, 2004 sue can't jump coz of a dikky ticker, she's saying she would ignore the doc and do it anyway if thats what i wanted.. which is nice .. hijack over Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 259 #21 March 17, 2004 Quotesue can't jump coz of a dikky ticker, she's saying she would ignore the doc and do it anyway if thats what i wanted.. which is nice .. Ahhh.... I comprehend now, thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites smellysue 0 #22 March 17, 2004 Sorry forgive me i am blonde which is my excuse and im sticking to it. and thanks as always to my otherhalf for relaying what i ment to say. (as always!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
smellysue 0 #22 March 17, 2004 Sorry forgive me i am blonde which is my excuse and im sticking to it. and thanks as always to my otherhalf for relaying what i ment to say. (as always!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites