WrongWay 0 #1 November 8, 2003 I'm talking about the magical love at first sight. Not so much as to where you meet the person and get married two days later, just connecting with that person so much that you know in that instant you were meant to spend your lives together. How many believers do we have out there??? Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 1 #2 November 8, 2003 I used to.... But when you get past whatever you "see" that makes you fall in love instantly, and see the real them, things change. Not saying is not possible, but I have learned that people do not always totally show their entire selves in the begining. Sometimes the thing that make you fall instantly in love with them, can end up being the one thing you hate about them most. Someone told me that once....its very very true. Love is an evil thing and a good thing all in one you can become so blind as to what is going on, and tend to listen what someone you love says and egnore the blatent actions that say otherwise. I am the one who wears her heart on her sleeve...and as much pain as it can cause me, I will continue to be a caring loving person. That is who I am and always will be. Maybe just maybe my answer "hell no" is wrong She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vonSanta 0 #3 November 8, 2003 You need a "have no f*cking clue, bud" option. For those of us who haven't experienced it but are ever so optimistic Santa Von GrossenArsch I only come in one flavour ohwaitthatcanbemisunderst Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samhussey 0 #4 November 8, 2003 I agree. I'd say it's possible, but unlikely... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pleifer 0 #5 November 8, 2003 my last relationship was love at first sight, depending on your deffinition of love, but we clicked. we spent 7 happy months together, then she decided she was no longer in love, so maybe tainted love at first sight? _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyyhi 0 #6 November 8, 2003 I believe you can fall in love with someone at first sight, but I also am realistic enough to know that lasting love takes time. That instant chemistry where everything is just perfect only carries a relationship so far, then you have to put in some effort if the relationship is worth it. IMHO Darcy________________________________________ Take risks not to escape life… but to prevent life from escaping. ~ A bumper sticker at the DZ FGF #6 Darcy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FallnAngel 0 #7 November 8, 2003 I've been married 19 years to a wonderful man that I had only known for 6 months before we committed our lives to each other (he was 19, I was 20). It was not love at first sight though...the "true love" part took time! I do believe you can feel connected to a person immediately upon meeting them, but to really be in love with them, to be willing (& wanting!) to stay together through the good, bad, & the seriously ugly parts of life..all that takes more than just a moment of connection. Blue skies, Karen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #8 November 8, 2003 Yes ... Have you? 'cause if you have ... I'm very happy for you! _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #9 November 8, 2003 Love at first sight....hmmmm. I suppose I used to believe in that, but not so much anymore. We, being the creatures we are crave companionship and long to find that someone special to spend the rest of our lives with.There can be an instant connection with someone, but I believe love takes time and nurturing. I do believe if you feel the connection, you should explore what it is that you are feeling. (If the other person is willing to.) It could turn into something beautiful or you could wind up with a very good friend.That being said, if you have connected with someone and think it's something you want, I say go for it!"It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #10 November 8, 2003 I believe in lust at first sight... But I don't think you can really love someone until you know them, and that takes time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #11 November 8, 2003 Nope.......that's just momentary infatuation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beowulf 1 #12 November 8, 2003 yeah when I first saw my first brand new rig. I was in love snif snif I still love it. ohhh you meant people. hmmm I suppose it could happen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydyvr 0 #13 November 8, 2003 Love is a decision, not an emotion. How can anyone make a decision to love someone they don't really know? . . =(_8^(1) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flypunk 0 #14 November 9, 2003 you must be talking about lust at first sight.... right? ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dagny 0 #15 November 9, 2003 I want to believe in love at first sight, but I don't really. I believe someone can be strongly attracted to another person upon first meeting, but I think it takes longer than an instant to discover who someone really is inside. The problem with love at first sight is that it's too easy, too convenient, and too easily broken when life gets complicated. That being said, however, I'm always open to being proven wrong!Take me, I am the drug; take me, I am hallucinogenic. -Salvador Dali Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #16 November 9, 2003 I absolutely, completely, totally, 100% belive in love at first sight. I knew when I met Travis that something special had just happened and my life was changed... I also knew very soon after that that I was in love with him... I also know now, without a single doubt or a second thought that I want to spend the rest of my life with him loving him the very best I possibly can. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Rookie120 0 #17 November 9, 2003 I dont know if it was love at first sight, but more like love after the first date. I have been with her since that night which was last July and things have only gotten better since then and my love for her has grown beyond belief. Just everything about her I love and she hasnt changed 1 bit since that first day. But things just get better by the day and who knows what the future might bring the 2 of us. She's not a jumper but I have never had anyone roll over in bed in the morning and suggest I go jump that day. I think she just wanted to get rid of me for the day. I hope not!!!If you find yourself in a fair fight, your tactics suck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites tbrown 26 #18 November 9, 2003 It happens. It isn't as perfect as the storybooks, and of course lasting love takes time and blah, blah, blah. But it definitely happens. Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites skydyvr 0 #19 November 9, 2003 QuoteJust everything about her I love and she hasnt changed 1 bit since that first day. Very cool. Always choose someone you care for just the way they are, because you can't change them. . . =(_8^(1) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites 12bhi 0 #20 November 9, 2003 With out a doubt! I fell in love when I first saw her 4 years ago. Now we have a child,house and dog. gettin married next year Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bobobiggalo 0 #21 November 9, 2003 I believe in the love at first sight,and i believe in lust at first sight too and i have been accused of both.And as long as i can notice the difference,i will save myself the embarrasment and the confusion that comes along with it. I fall in love all the time but i love the true people that make a difference in my life by having them around.And i fall in lust with women that make my eyes feel good (eye candy) and have a certain way about them that just makes them a pleasure to have around. ( i think that makes sense)(its what the voices told me say) I will be the first one to say that people should live together for at least 5 years before they even think about getting married though. There are way to many people out there that think that just because they say i do, that they are gonna be happy with that one person for the rest of their lives.It's alot cheaper to say i dont than to say i do,and to change their minds later. done rambling now! thanx for askin! skies blue! any further love questions should be addressed directly to Dr.Phil Watch out where the huskies go,and don't you eat that yellow snow!~ZAPPA Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Aviatrr 0 #22 November 9, 2003 LOVE at first sight? Sorry man, it doesn't exist. That's called LUST.. You can't LOVE somebody you don't know. You can say you do....you can even fool yourself into believing you do for a short time....but you can't really LOVE somebody at first sight. If you fool yourself into believing in love at first sight, and you two really hit it off....you may fall in love eventually, and convince yourself it was love at first sight.. Mike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freefallfrank 0 #23 November 9, 2003 I think if it was love at first sight, great! But more often than enough, beer and more beer makes you love anything. Or maybe you just jive together as humans and not necessarily made for each other 24/7.But again, what do I know, been married for 12 years now!!!LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freefallfrank 0 #24 November 9, 2003 In the dog house tonite!!! Got caught writing this out, yeah!, just like stepping in the plane for the first jump. Ya hooooooo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Michele 1 #25 November 9, 2003 I believe in it, and have not experienced it. I suspect it's kinda rare. I have experienced lust at first glance, though. And I suspect that's far more common. The trick is knowing the difference. 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Rookie120 0 #17 November 9, 2003 I dont know if it was love at first sight, but more like love after the first date. I have been with her since that night which was last July and things have only gotten better since then and my love for her has grown beyond belief. Just everything about her I love and she hasnt changed 1 bit since that first day. But things just get better by the day and who knows what the future might bring the 2 of us. She's not a jumper but I have never had anyone roll over in bed in the morning and suggest I go jump that day. I think she just wanted to get rid of me for the day. I hope not!!!If you find yourself in a fair fight, your tactics suck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tbrown 26 #18 November 9, 2003 It happens. It isn't as perfect as the storybooks, and of course lasting love takes time and blah, blah, blah. But it definitely happens. Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydyvr 0 #19 November 9, 2003 QuoteJust everything about her I love and she hasnt changed 1 bit since that first day. Very cool. Always choose someone you care for just the way they are, because you can't change them. . . =(_8^(1) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
12bhi 0 #20 November 9, 2003 With out a doubt! I fell in love when I first saw her 4 years ago. Now we have a child,house and dog. gettin married next year Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bobobiggalo 0 #21 November 9, 2003 I believe in the love at first sight,and i believe in lust at first sight too and i have been accused of both.And as long as i can notice the difference,i will save myself the embarrasment and the confusion that comes along with it. I fall in love all the time but i love the true people that make a difference in my life by having them around.And i fall in lust with women that make my eyes feel good (eye candy) and have a certain way about them that just makes them a pleasure to have around. ( i think that makes sense)(its what the voices told me say) I will be the first one to say that people should live together for at least 5 years before they even think about getting married though. There are way to many people out there that think that just because they say i do, that they are gonna be happy with that one person for the rest of their lives.It's alot cheaper to say i dont than to say i do,and to change their minds later. done rambling now! thanx for askin! skies blue! any further love questions should be addressed directly to Dr.Phil Watch out where the huskies go,and don't you eat that yellow snow!~ZAPPA Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Aviatrr 0 #22 November 9, 2003 LOVE at first sight? Sorry man, it doesn't exist. That's called LUST.. You can't LOVE somebody you don't know. You can say you do....you can even fool yourself into believing you do for a short time....but you can't really LOVE somebody at first sight. If you fool yourself into believing in love at first sight, and you two really hit it off....you may fall in love eventually, and convince yourself it was love at first sight.. Mike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freefallfrank 0 #23 November 9, 2003 I think if it was love at first sight, great! But more often than enough, beer and more beer makes you love anything. Or maybe you just jive together as humans and not necessarily made for each other 24/7.But again, what do I know, been married for 12 years now!!!LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freefallfrank 0 #24 November 9, 2003 In the dog house tonite!!! Got caught writing this out, yeah!, just like stepping in the plane for the first jump. Ya hooooooo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Michele 1 #25 November 9, 2003 I believe in it, and have not experienced it. I suspect it's kinda rare. I have experienced lust at first glance, though. And I suspect that's far more common. The trick is knowing the difference. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
bobobiggalo 0 #21 November 9, 2003 I believe in the love at first sight,and i believe in lust at first sight too and i have been accused of both.And as long as i can notice the difference,i will save myself the embarrasment and the confusion that comes along with it. I fall in love all the time but i love the true people that make a difference in my life by having them around.And i fall in lust with women that make my eyes feel good (eye candy) and have a certain way about them that just makes them a pleasure to have around. ( i think that makes sense)(its what the voices told me say) I will be the first one to say that people should live together for at least 5 years before they even think about getting married though. There are way to many people out there that think that just because they say i do, that they are gonna be happy with that one person for the rest of their lives.It's alot cheaper to say i dont than to say i do,and to change their minds later. done rambling now! thanx for askin! skies blue! any further love questions should be addressed directly to Dr.Phil Watch out where the huskies go,and don't you eat that yellow snow!~ZAPPA Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aviatrr 0 #22 November 9, 2003 LOVE at first sight? Sorry man, it doesn't exist. That's called LUST.. You can't LOVE somebody you don't know. You can say you do....you can even fool yourself into believing you do for a short time....but you can't really LOVE somebody at first sight. If you fool yourself into believing in love at first sight, and you two really hit it off....you may fall in love eventually, and convince yourself it was love at first sight.. Mike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefallfrank 0 #23 November 9, 2003 I think if it was love at first sight, great! But more often than enough, beer and more beer makes you love anything. Or maybe you just jive together as humans and not necessarily made for each other 24/7.But again, what do I know, been married for 12 years now!!!LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefallfrank 0 #24 November 9, 2003 In the dog house tonite!!! Got caught writing this out, yeah!, just like stepping in the plane for the first jump. Ya hooooooo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #25 November 9, 2003 I believe in it, and have not experienced it. I suspect it's kinda rare. I have experienced lust at first glance, though. And I suspect that's far more common. The trick is knowing the difference. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
