flyangel2 2 #26 June 4, 2004 Well I'll be really different and suggest that you offer some kind of Saturday activity. Find out what kind of activities she enjoys. Does she like to go on day hikes, ride on bike trails. I just don't like the lunch, dinner, coffee thing. Those kinds of situations make me feel locked in. But if I'm out rock climbing or snowboarding with someone, the competition gets going, and then I find out what kind of guy he really is. Can he handle a girl kicking his ass on the slopes, or does he kick my ass From everything I've heard about you, I think you'll make the right decision. Just don't come on too strong to start with and scare her away. Try to be buddies first.May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tunaplanet 0 #27 June 4, 2004 Do what your instincts tell you to do and not people on a message board. Forty-two Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
headoverheels 291 #28 June 4, 2004 I agree with Mary. I've gone hiking and biking with new prospects. It gives you a chance to chat, to flirt, and to do some mutually enjoyable activity. Go see Fred the Diving Pig! Edit: Oops, I guess it was Ralph, not Fred, and he's retired. Still a destination idea. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 24 #29 June 4, 2004 QuoteKris and Clint, no coffee shops around here, WHAT KIND OF HELLHOLE DO YOU LIVE IN?????? Oh, right, Texas, I forgot....Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #30 June 4, 2004 QuoteQuoteKris and Clint, no coffee shops around here, WHAT KIND OF HELLHOLE DO YOU LIVE IN?????? Oh, right, Texas, I forgot.... So lets see - In November, December, January, Feruary, and march the temperature AT ALTITUDE never got below 0 degrees here. What was your exit altitude temp?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JRock 0 #31 June 4, 2004 Drinks dude... That is a much more laid back atmosphere. Dinner for a first date can be a big production. Go to a sports bar or some pub and just have a chilled evening. (Of course of she doesn't drink you are... A) Screwed and B) don't want to date her. Bwahahaha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
seekfun 0 #32 June 4, 2004 Quote I've gone hiking and biking with new prospects When you say "prospects", are you saying this in the "is he sponge-worthy" sense? Just wondering... topher "...there is a there out there..." - Tom Robbins Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #33 June 4, 2004 Quoteneither, ask me out nstead! Well you were referring to him as your boyfreind over the weekend. Anyhoo Brains, just ask her out. I like the idea of doing some kinda fun activity together on a saturday or something. Don't ask her out for coffee, that idea sucks. If she's not into the activity thing, dinner is a better choice than lunch. Now why am i giving you advice when i want you for myself? Seriously babe, good luck with it. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #34 June 4, 2004 QuoteQuoteneither, ask me out nstead! Well you were referring to him as your boyfreind over the weekend. Anyhoo Brains, just ask her out. I like the idea of doing some kinda fun activity together on a saturday or something. Don't ask her out for coffee, that idea sucks. If she's not into the activity thing, dinner is a better choice than lunch. Now why am i giving you advice when i want you for myself? Seriously babe, good luck with it. So Sunny - I was thinking - Wanna have some coffee - maybe a PopTart and a Bagel?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #35 June 4, 2004 QuoteSo Sunny - I was thinking - Wanna have some coffee - maybe a PopTart and a Bagel? Cherry frosted pop tart, and a whole wheat bagel with honeynut cream cheese please!! Believe it or not some people don't drink coffee. Same with how some people don't drink alcohol, but i think everyone eats lunch/dinner. I guess the only safe thing to do is to ask her to go to the bathroom, cause everyone does that.... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HRHSkyPrincess 0 #36 June 4, 2004 Ask her to lunch Sweetie, and remember, he who hesitates is lost. The worst that can happen is she'll say 'hell no, I won't go'... Lunch is safe, the time is finite, no harm no foul. Screw up the courage and go for it~!~***************** Attitude is everything! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #37 June 4, 2004 Quoteneither, ask me out nstead! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well you were referring to him as your boyfreind over the weekend. I still can't believe what she told me on the phone Friday night. Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #38 June 4, 2004 QuoteAsk her to lunch Sweetie, and remember, he who hesitates is lost. I thought that quote was 'He who hesitates masterb___s.' -Now what movie was that from?!? ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #39 June 4, 2004 My suggestion is to either ask her to dinner or to something fun like a baseball game, festival, etc.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Perky77 0 #40 June 4, 2004 I voted dinner but agree with for a drink. AND BALLS UP DUDE ask her out what is the worst that can happen, you have to switch banks. By the way, coming home in a week or so, may be in Austin, so I will call you if I wander to San Antonio "Sacrifice is a part of life. It is supposed to be. It's not something you regret . It's something to aspire to." Mitch Albom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #41 June 4, 2004 WTF, no coffee shops? Shit, College station has 6 of them, atleast, those are just the ones that I can think of off the top of my head...I promise you they're there, you just don't know it.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #42 June 4, 2004 QuoteI voted dinner but agree with for a drink. AND BALLS UP DUDE ask her out what is the worst that can happen, you have to switch banks. By the way, coming home in a week or so, may be in Austin, so I will call you if I wander to San Antonio Naw, i would have to have her fired, i am an investor in that bank! Call when you are in Austin, we need to have a beer and a jump, i gotta spare rig if ya need it. Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
