marks 0 #26 June 23, 2006 QuoteMark.. Put a Jump on my account and I will post the link. that can be worked out, but your kinda late. she is promising the real thing to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #27 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteNO...they suck. Sometimes, unless there is a [for slappy] ass load of security between the two, or three or four .. . . nevermind - there just has to be a lot of security. What?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #28 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteMark.. Put a Jump on my account and I will post the link. that can be worked out, but your kinda late. she is promising the real thing to me. SNAP!! That's funny... I mean that's really funny. Does the statement "out of your league!" mean anything to you? "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #29 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteNO...they suck. Sometimes, unless there is a [for slappy] ass load of security between the two, or three or four .. . . nevermind - there just has to be a lot of security. What? I don't like fake cops *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marks 0 #30 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteMark.. Put a Jump on my account and I will post the link. that can be worked out, but your kinda late. she is promising the real thing to me. SNAP!! That's funny... I mean that's really funny. Does the statement "out of your league!" mean anything to you? I don't play games, so how could anyone be out of my league? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #31 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteMark.. Put a Jump on my account and I will post the link. that can be worked out, but your kinda late. she is promising the real thing to me. SNAP!! That's funny... I mean that's really funny. Does the statement "out of your league!" mean anything to you? I don't play games, so how could anyone be out of my league? That you're basically not in her league to begin with. I'm cool with that, you're a bigger man then I to admit you can't attain something you long for. "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skytash 0 #32 June 23, 2006 They are hard work, can be very hard work at times, less so at others and the time together can be great. It can also be difficult to live up to the expectations the other one has built up over the time spent apart. Just depends on the individuals and their determination to make it work. Been in one before which didn't work out because our expectations of the other were different, he just wanted a bit of fun, I thought there was more there. As to the one at the moment, well I don't discuss good or bad times in a relationship in public tashDon't ever save anything for a special occasion. Being alive is a special occasion. Avril Sloe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #33 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteNO...they suck. Sometimes, unless there is a [for slappy] ass load of security between the two, or three or four .. . . nevermind - there just has to be a lot of security. What? I don't like fake cops . . . . . . Hi! My name is missg8tordiver and I just got back from left field. Huh? Security as in trust. Not as in the creepy dude that guards the neiborhood 7-11.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marks 0 #34 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteMark.. Put a Jump on my account and I will post the link. that can be worked out, but your kinda late. she is promising the real thing to me. SNAP!! That's funny... I mean that's really funny. Does the statement "out of your league!" mean anything to you? I don't play games, so how could anyone be out of my league? That you're basically not in her league to begin with. I'm cool with that, you're a bigger man then I to admit you can't attain something you long for. sometimes shit goes over my head i guess. and that went over my head. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #35 June 23, 2006 I had to read it a couple times I admit.... But in the end...it still wasn't funny.*** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #36 June 23, 2006 QuoteI had to read it a couple times I admit.... But in the end...it still wasn't funny. The coming out of left field comment?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #37 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteI had to read it a couple times I admit.... But in the end...it still wasn't funny. The coming out of left field comment? No the security comment. I was so confussed by that point I couldn't laugh. *** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #38 June 23, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteI had to read it a couple times I admit.... But in the end...it still wasn't funny. The coming out of left field comment? No the security comment. I was so confussed by that point I couldn't laugh. Ok - I'm missing something - but that's ok - Ummm - Ok - onto funny stuff! . . .I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missg8tordivr 0 #39 June 23, 2006 I'm sorry turtle, this long distance internet relationship is just not working for me. I can't understand you.*** F LORIDA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #40 June 23, 2006 Breathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #41 June 23, 2006 QuoteI'm sorry turtle, this long distance internet relationship is just not working for me. I can't understand you. Well then - I guess I need to get to florida sometime soon so that I can articulate EXACTLY what I'm feeling this very moment.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #42 June 23, 2006 QuoteNO...they suck. Ditto... g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #44 June 23, 2006 It depends on the people and the level of communication. If there is really good communication, it can work. However, eventually one of the people will end up having to move closer.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyD 0 #45 June 23, 2006 Long distance relationships are awesome - provided you are looking to enter a "relationship" with someone that is not available. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #46 June 23, 2006 Ouch!Breathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hipwrddude 0 #47 June 24, 2006 In my opinion, one has to make a bold decision early to either end it or continue it, but only continue it with the full knowledge that the feeling is deep and mutual. You also have to feel secure in knowing that their job/life doesn't put them in contact with alot of desirable people. If one is on the phone with them late in the night, every night, that spells t-r-o-u-b-l-e. Long distance = pain and longing (not to mention jealousy and wild bouts of insecurity.) If one is equally crazy about the other, either a battle or sacrifice will occur that is also painful in some way (to come together.) Most importantly, is the person stable, stable in personality, relationships, money, etc? The best predictor of what to expect is what has happened before in their life/relationships (listen to what they reveal.) Also, be aware that one can become completely irrational during the infatuation stage of a relationship. It can be tough, but use friends and family for gravity and introduce them to the person. First impressions occur in 15 seconds (whether they speak or not!) Not surprisingly, most first impressions are often right-on. But, again, the infatuation stage can leave people quite irrational. Ultimately one must decide whether they want to release themself from the spell, or fall into it's euphoria, wonder and pain. You're always the starter in your own life! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Richards 0 #48 June 24, 2006 My wife and I had dated for several years before marrying. During that time we spent a couple of years apart due to my going to school in another part of the country. Works sometimes, and ours was one of those times. Richards My biggest handicap is that sometimes the hole in the front of my head operates a tad bit faster than the grey matter contained within. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lee846 0 #49 June 24, 2006 QuoteIs there anyone on here that made a long distance relationship work? Just curious, Im bored! it could work in the beginning and it seems to be perfect... but even in the very beginning the story is not the actual reality -- some of the very amazing things about this relationship are generated by your own mind. And the long distance lets you act like this. You gonna love this. Then the long distance drives you crazy. You're not sure in anything anymore. You cannot get the simpliest things on the phone because you don't have the illustration of the real-life face and eyes, full of emotions. Then you're full of the doubts and you're trying to change something means make the distance shorter. And if you don't have such an opportunity -- then you're totally f****d up. Then you both will quit it. Or one of you will quit it and another person's heart is gonna be broken. Or some Broken-Hearts-Preventing Programm will imperceptibly activates itself deep in your soul and you will finally find yourself feeling no emotions about that person living that far away from you. Or may be, all the difficulties despite, there exist the couple that is able to feel happy having an ocean between the right and left sides of their bad. I'm sure it does exist but i haven't met those people personally. Between two evils always pick theone never tried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rookie120 0 #50 June 24, 2006 I had a LDR for a long time. The 2 of of going through college and stuff. It was hard as hell. Spent a lot of money on airline tickets and whatnot. We are done with school and will be getting married in October. So it can work. Just depends how bad you want it to work.If you find yourself in a fair fight, your tactics suck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
