billvon 2,394 #51 April 10, 2007 Y'know, after reading this thread, I can see why some people have such relationship problems . . . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
georgerussia 0 #52 April 10, 2007 Quote I've been on the receiving end of it once...I cannot forgive this behavior. It IS the core of a trusting relationship...at least to me. Different people have different definition of cheating. If my GF has sex with someone in front of me - it is not cheating. Most likely I would join them :P I just said it differently - if you have casual sex with someone, I wouldn't care. Just make sure you take a shower, I hate sloppy seconds.* Don't pray for me if you wanna help - just send me a check. * Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpinJules 0 #53 April 10, 2007 what did you say in response?Into the great wide open/ under them skies of blue/ out in the great wide open/ a rebel w/out a clue..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiver30960 0 #54 April 10, 2007 Mine said that too. Does that mean I'll test her out on it? Hell no. She also said, she'd forgive but never forget. And I belive it. She's better than me, I dunno if I could ever forgive. Elvisio "just love her for the fact that she said it" Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 6 #55 April 10, 2007 Unload and hide the weapons! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #56 April 10, 2007 My first thought, as a woman, is that IF I ever said that to my SO, it would most likely be so that he'd feel safe in admitting to me if and when he ever did screw up. Then I'd kick his ass right out the door. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #57 April 10, 2007 ... maybe she thinks you've cheated on her and she really wants to know about it. She wants you to confess, so she's creating what appears to be a passive, happy, calm and inviting situation for you to do so. Do not be fooled. Either way... seriously... go freakin ask her... I don't know the conversation ended without you asking? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiver30960 0 #58 April 10, 2007 The other thing I thought about when she said it to me was "maybe she cheated on me and was looking for me to give her the green light to tell me about it..." Elvisio "jealous bastard" Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #59 April 11, 2007 So what did you say when she said that to you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carpediem 0 #60 April 11, 2007 It means she has the clap, and wants you to get your ass tested Those who do, can't explain. Those who don't, can't understand. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
