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I'm not tacky. I was joking.LOL and all I need to be happy if I have nothing else.

I thought we were not serious on this forum. Its not all I care about. But He is getting EVERYTHING and custody of my little boy. So in the end when I am alone with nothing.
The rig and jumping is the only thing that will make me happy.
I joke around too much. I'm sarcastic. One reason we are divorcing. We knew each other 2 years. My first one 2 years. I left my first one b/c he drank everyday and could throw a good left hook.
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Another big reason that I did not want brought up(about this divorce is my fault 100%) but I will PM the reason b/c I feel I need to justify myself now. Your making me seem like a cold person when I'm not.

Sorry I come off that way. I just messed up. He will not forget things. I'll put my pm on. Sorry about that.
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Look. I am not going to be attacked for something I posted 7 years ago. Give me a break. I have not been on this forum in 6 years. Now I know why. Give it a rest or this will get locked . I did not do anything to you so why are you wanting people to read my old post?
Damm. I am having a bitch of day. I swear. Every time I get online here or anywhere. If you want to embarrass me. I can not stop you. But I would not do that to anyone b/c that is tacky. Anything else please PM me.
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Your making me seem like a cold person when I'm not.



I'm going off of what you have posted here, nothing more. I don't know you personally. You came off as a materialistic person who only cared about a rig. And being that the divorce is your fault (as you say), I'd say only caring about getting a rig out of a marriage you screwed up is pretty sad. :( I don't know why you'd even post somethig like that (in a joking manner) for people to read and (maybe) get the wrong impression.

I can probably guess the reason you're getting divorced, but I could be wrong.

Anyway, why is he getting custody? That suprises me. It's not often the mother does not get custody of her children in the event of a divorce. Unless you can't support them?

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It wasn't meant as an attack. She asked a question and you do have a history here, including stuff you posted about your marriage and husband that had a lot of people here seriously concerned for YOU and your safety. I wish you lots of luck in getting on with your life.

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It felt like an attack, sorry I took it to be if it was just concern. it just seemed harsh. Everyone that knows me knew about my divorce. I was just thinking aloud ,I guess last night.

I almost got back with him a few weeks ago. Never happened. He is moving to Seattle with my son. So it is serious to me.
Like I said. I was trying to be funny with me post about only caring about he rig. I meant as I said. If I loose everything in a marriage at least I will still have this sport to help me get through it. Skydiving is a big stress reliever. I am getting enough money out of this divorce to pay for another rig. It's really not ALL I care about in the divorce. The custody will be worked out hopefully. Its all fine. I'm really not that crazy


If you or she were concerned . Thank you I appreciate that.
BTW My old post . I will admit it. I was a dumb ass. Thats why I changed my username.
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I am having to live with my Ex-for 2 months.

I am in the guest room hes in our room. Talk about sucks!
But I do get a new rig out of the deal so its all good . Thats all I care about anyway. Second divorce and I am only 27. Maybe 3 times will be a charm. I will not marry again unless he is a skydiver. FOR SURE. No WUFFO husband for me. I think most skydivers have open minds and a better sense of humor. My Ex has non of that. He thinks I'm Satan's daughterCrazy


This was my post. I was bitching out .loud. I guess.


I can probably guess the reason you're getting divorced, but I could be wrong.

Anyway, why is he getting custody? That suprises me. It's not often the mother does not get custody of her children in the event of a divorce. Unless you can't support them?

I don't want anyone to know anymore than what I posted. I did not mean for it to be so serious. Even though it is.

I thought it was strange that I was having to have such weird living arrangements until he leaves. Everything else I can not share. Especially about my son,who I love dearly.

I can say that I can afford to support my son. Maybe not as well as my Ex-. So yes he is getting custody b/c I do not have a very great job as he does. It sucks and I really want to stop this thread. Thanks for the concern .




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Before I stop. I am sorry for tapping into a subject that is serious. Sorry as if I seem to come off as if I think divorce is easy or something. Ihave to say funny things sometimes to stay strong.

I think I rattled some chains with my lighthearted remarks and my intentions were taken wrong.
Im sorry for anyone that has gone through this and hope things get better. I'm just accepting things as they are . I can't change the past. I can change how I live my life now.

My son will have a mom and a dad and its better he have us sane and not yelling at each other all the time.
I can't say the big reason we divorced on-line. Bad judgment and impulsive nature have something to do with it though.

Divorce is sad and its mostly sad for my son. With that said
I nor my Ex-husband ever cheated. Not the reason. Just wanted to write that in there.
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Well congratulations, Jessicakes! Hugely pregnant hopefully means baby soon, which is totally cool!

Wendy W.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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