Baksteen 84 #26 June 5, 2008 So, how did it go?"That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
simplyputsi 0 #27 June 5, 2008 Not good. I never had the opportunity to talk with him as I got home, he arrived shortly after. I was in bathroom. When I came out he was in his room with the door shut. He did not come out of his room till after I had gone to bed. So makes me think I'm being dodged and so I either have to accept I won't have the money till this coming monday or I can call him and see what the deal is, but either way I won't have the money till Monday as he won't be home till after I have left for the weekend.Skymama's #2 stalker - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #28 June 5, 2008 Wow. That's a very hard post to respond adequately to. Don't think too much about your roommate holing up - mine do this all the time. Sometimes one just needs their own space, a break from social situations. It doesn't necessarily mean he's avoiding you, especially since he's a trusted friend as you indicated. It doesn't even ncessarily mean something bad happened - sometimes you just want to be alone for a while. It's a shame that you're away for the weekend, but if on monday he directly goes to his room again, just knock and say you need to talk to him. Find out if there's anything wrong and if so, let them vent. Then make some small talk and when they feel at ease again tactfully bring up the money question."That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
simplyputsi 0 #29 June 9, 2008 Yeah, I don't think it is me, but he is still acting all distant. I think he is having girl issues. He paid me yesterday when I got home. Guess he will be out next week as he did not pay the full amount. Pretty shitty of him to give me basically a 2 week notice but whatever. Like I've said before he was supposed to be gone a few months ago, at least there was talk of it. I'm also still looking to sell my place, just waiting on a few things to get finished with the property. Not having a dog there getting the place all hairy will be a plus come time to sell.Skymama's #2 stalker - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tmaricle55 0 #30 June 9, 2008 Quote Not good. I never had the opportunity to talk with him as I got home, he arrived shortly after. I was in bathroom. When I came out he was in his room with the door shut. He did not come out of his room till after I had gone to bed. Sounds like a typical man! Just kidding, I am glad you got everything worked out! Good seeing you this weekend! Muff Brother # 3883, SCR # 14796 ICD # 1 - Pres. Yeah, I noticed and I think it's funny! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
