mr2mk1g 10 #1 August 25, 2008 I could do with a second opinion. At the start or last week everything seemed easy. I had two dates lined up with really attractive young ladies; a date with this hot blonde on Thursday evening and a date with a hot redhead on Tuesday (tomorrow) evening. Everything was simple and uncomplicated and I figured I had a pretty good week ahead of me. Now I don't know what to do. See, the date with the blonde went well... very well. And we've pretty much spent the last 4 nights together. So well in fact that I kinda get the feeling that there's an expectation of exclusivity there. It gets complicated however... Blonde chick moves away from the city in one month's time so there's no real expectation on either our part's that this is going to be a long term thing. Therefore, I really don't want to burn any bridges with redhead as I'd rather like to see more of her once blondie's left the city. So what the hell am I supposed to do about the date tomorrow night? I'm quite happy to still go on the date and simply not do anything... but what if I really hit it off with the redhead? I don't want to stuff things up by appearing uninterested or not following up on the date for like a whole month. On the other hand I'm not the kind of guy who will start seeing two girls at once, (I'm far too lazy and that seems like so much hard work) - so no suggestions that I should simply start seeing both of them as it's only a month I have to worry about. So do I call redhead, fess up that what seemed like a simple date has gone kinda further than I expected and that I no longer really feel in a position to start dating her... She'd not be pissed about my having had another date or anything, but might not be too impressed with the idea of being asked to wait around a month for me to screw the crap out of blondie while she waits in the wings. Do I simply cancel the date tomorrow with some kind of excuse and hope to pick things up in a few weeks time? Do I go on the date tomorrow night, not do anything, and somehow try and stall for a month?(the date by the way is just a first date meeting up for a couple of drinks after work - but then that's what my date with blondie on thursday was supposed to be ). Do I shut the hell up because the redhead probably isn't going to like me anyway so I'm agonizing about nothing? hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #2 August 25, 2008 What you're really asking is how you can play both sides against the middle. Well, it doesn't seem to be that serious after all between you and the blonde if there is "no real expectation on either our part's that this is going to be a long term thing". So go on the date and see whether you and the redhead like each other. Then choose between both girls and 'fess up' to the other. There. All that's left to do now is for me to post the usual "Posting on DZ.com disclaimer": Never seen you hump (thankfully)...not an instructor...advice over the internet...talk to your own instructors."That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #3 August 25, 2008 Quote What you're really asking is how you can play both sides against the middle. Well, it doesn't seem to be that serious after all between you and the blonde if there is "no real expectation on either our part's that this is going to be a long term thing". So go on the date and see whether you and the redhead like each other. Then choose between both girls and 'fess up' to the other. There. All that's left to do now is for me to post the usual "Posting on DZ.com disclaimer": Never seen you hump (thankfully)...not an instructor...advice over the internet...talk to your own instructors. dennis, altough you dont like me anymore since i'm a freeflier, that just got me SCREAMING laughing.. wonder what kind of instructors you have up there in the north! “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #4 August 25, 2008 yeah, next some wiseass is going to suggest I post video of one of my "landings". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #5 August 25, 2008 What about not seeing both of them and starting fresh with someone else? Next up should be a brunette! Seriously, unless you and the blonde have spoken directly about not seeing anyone else then I think the date with the redhead is fair game. Treat the redhead's date as just having fun with a friend, no harm there....... see where it leads. Maybe it would be a dud anyway? Good luck!Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #6 August 25, 2008 Quote yeah, next some wiseass is going to suggest I post video of one of my "landings". Nah....just the landing strip.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #7 August 25, 2008 I'd say...safety first. YOUR safety. Ladies tend to get upset when they find out that they "aren't the only ones." You KNOW how volatile redheads are, right? My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #8 August 25, 2008 Quote yeah, next some wiseass is going to suggest I post video of one of my "landings". hell yea, otherwise you wont get no serious advice! we cant judge if we dont see! “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #9 August 25, 2008 Be honest with Blondie, but only if it becomes an issue. The red head doesn't need to know about all of your personal life yet.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #10 August 25, 2008 my best advice about dating is ...just don't do it...your better off with Rosie and her 5 sisters. At least rosie will never lie or cheat on you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #11 August 25, 2008 thats not what a man wants to hear.. “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #12 August 25, 2008 Set up a 3-way. Duh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Butters 0 #13 August 25, 2008 Send the redhead to me for a month ... "That looks dangerous." Leopold Stotch Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinjin 0 #14 August 25, 2008 QuoteWhat about not seeing both of them and starting fresh with someone else? Next up should be a brunette! Seriously, unless you and the blonde have spoken directly about not seeing anyone else then I think the date with the redhead is fair game. Treat the redhead's date as just having fun with a friend, no harm there....... see where it leads. Maybe it would be a XXXX dude ( I FIXED IT FOR YA) anyway? Good luck!dont let life pass you by Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #15 August 25, 2008 Dude if redhead is an option drop the blondDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
simplyputsi 0 #16 August 25, 2008 Quote Set up a 3-way. Duh. Why did it take more than 3 posts for this to show up?Redheads are hot, nuff said!!!Skymama's #2 stalker - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #17 August 25, 2008 Quote Seriously, unless you and the blonde have spoken directly about not seeing anyone else then I think the date with the redhead is fair game. Treat the redhead's date as just having fun with a friend, no harm there....... see where it leads. Maybe it would be a XXXX dude ( I FIXED IT FOR YA) anyway? Good luck! Ohhhhhhhh, plot twist! LOL! Imagine finding junk in the redhead's pants? Now, how would you explain that to the blonde? "Honey, take me back for a month because the other chick has a dick!"Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nanook 1 #18 August 25, 2008 Don't cancel the date. They both probably are dating other people too. Buy a box of condoms. _____________________________ "The trouble with quotes on the internet is that you can never know if they are genuine" - Abraham Lincoln Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #19 August 25, 2008 Go out with the redhead, see how things go... you already know there's no future with the blonde so don't burn your bridges. If things go well with the redhead let blondie know, if she still wants to see you and the redhead does too then let them both know about the other... one way or another the problem will sort itself out...The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #20 August 25, 2008 Long time no see, my learned friend from across the pond. My suggestion would be to ask the blonde about it. Tell her exactly what is going on. Then say, "But I'm thinking that considering the last few days, perhaps we should think about being exclusive. I'd like you opinion on it." Now you've made serious points with the blonde. OR, you've been cleared for approach on runway 69-Red. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtyB 0 #21 August 26, 2008 Quote You KNOW how volatile redheads are, right? Umm, I'm seeing a trend here... why must you bash the redheads?? Why???"Don't let the bon-bons give you a fat ass. Merry X-mas!" - Skydemon2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtyB 0 #22 August 26, 2008 Quote Redheads are hot, nuff said!!! Finally! Someone is on the side of the redhead..."Don't let the bon-bons give you a fat ass. Merry X-mas!" - Skydemon2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtyB 0 #23 August 26, 2008 Quote The red head doesn't need to know about all of your personal life yet. You would say that, Turtle. You hater!"Don't let the bon-bons give you a fat ass. Merry X-mas!" - Skydemon2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #24 August 26, 2008 I don't see where the problem is.... Blonde - Moving in 4 weeks. Redhead - Not moving in 4 weeks. Seriously dude....are you just boasting? www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #25 August 26, 2008 QuoteBe honest with Blondie, but only if it becomes an issue. The red head doesn't need to know about all of your personal life yet. Isn't that just another way of saying "keep your mouth shut unless you get caught"?You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
