fossg 0 #26 May 27, 2009 I would put it back. Some things I just don't want to know. On the other hand if someone were to read my journal they would fall asleep after the first paragraph or so Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeForsythe 0 #27 May 27, 2009 Do I have to answer this? Time and pressure will always show you who a person really is! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caress 0 #28 May 27, 2009 Respect demands to put that puppy right back and dont even think to look at the cover again. Thats violating, betraying and flat out fucked up to read other peoples things without their knowledge. I would tell my s/o that I found it, and if I was curious to see what is inside, I would ask then. There is no honor in stabbing someone you say you love in the back by reading their most intiment thoughts. Curious or not, without their consent.-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #29 May 27, 2009 Quote I would put it back. Some things I just don't want to know. On the other hand if someone were to read my journal they would fall asleep after the first paragraph or so It's not so much about things you "don't want to know" it's about privacy. Sometimes writing things down to vent is just therapy. Good or bad. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #30 May 27, 2009 Quote Do I have to answer this? No. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #31 May 27, 2009 Quote Love that song. It's a sad song. But it's pretty. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24IfD-0VUu4 Oh, and I probably wouldn't really read Rich's diary.... but I seriously can't imagine him having one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #32 May 27, 2009 I'd like to say I'd put it back without opening it, but in all honesty I'd probably open it up, read a sentence or two, feel guilty, then put it back. And logic aside, I'd probably assume the whole thing was full of whatever was in that random sentence or two...good or bad. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #33 May 27, 2009 Adults who keep journals are weird. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KevinMcGuire 0 #34 May 27, 2009 Personally, I know that I am not Columbus. I am not into planting flags or for that matter, intruding into the personal thoughts of others. We are all human and we all have fantasy’s desires. You may not be able to handle what you SO might have been thinking at the moment they wrote those words. Never be in too big a hurry to learn a secret. It might just bite you in the ass. Then again, it may open doors you never thought possible -K Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #35 May 27, 2009 QuoteWould you read it or put it back where you found it? When it comes to someone elses diary, ignorance of what is in it... will always be bliss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #36 May 27, 2009 Quote Would you read it or put it back where you found it? You could do what my most recent SO did; read it word for word and take note of every insecurity, fear, or hope that I have for your use against me, and record all relevant details of exes or potential interests for stalking purposes. True Story. She used to throw stuff she read in it in my face during arguments. "I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #37 May 27, 2009 I can't read hers. It's in Finnish!Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #38 May 27, 2009 Leave it! I have no desire to read someone else's diary, let alone my SO. Although I find it really funny to go back and read mine from the past - I write some silly stuff sometimes! g "Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #39 May 27, 2009 Matt I thought we agreed you'd take those pages about me out! In all seriousness... that really sucks your ex. got all freaky (and in not the good way) on ya! g "Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #40 May 27, 2009 Quote Matt I thought we agreed you'd take those pages about me out! In all seriousness... that really sucks your ex. got all freaky (and in not the good way) on ya! g Don't be silly, babe, the stuff with me you and Rikki is on video, remember? "I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #41 May 27, 2009 Quote Quote Matt I thought we agreed you'd take those pages about me out! In all seriousness... that really sucks your ex. got all freaky (and in not the good way) on ya! g Don't be silly, babe, the stuff with me you and Rikki is on video, remember? LOL I do have a VERY interesting photo of you! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #42 May 27, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Matt I thought we agreed you'd take those pages about me out! In all seriousness... that really sucks your ex. got all freaky (and in not the good way) on ya! g Don't be silly, babe, the stuff with me you and Rikki is on video, remember? LOL I do have a VERY interesting photo of you! g You and half the world... OHHHHHH, you mean THAT photo... "I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #43 May 27, 2009 I would put it back,unread that is.Not mine to read,if she wanted me to read it she would give it to me.Privacy thing! Just me though. Bry-------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iambeav2 0 #44 May 27, 2009 Quote Quote Would you read it or put it back where you found it? You could do what my most recent SO did; read it word for word and take note of every insecurity, fear, or hope that I have for your use against me, and record all relevant details of exes or potential interests for stalking purposes. True Story. She used to throw stuff she read in it in my face during arguments. Haha, I can relate to a VERY recent scenario...it sucks. If it was your shit, then we wouldn't be callin it my shit now would we?...it's not the fact that you don't appreciate what you have until it's gone...it's the fact that you don't appreciate what you have until someone appreciates it for you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skyrad 0 #45 May 27, 2009 I'd leave it alone, I trust her. If she wants me to know something she will tell me herself.When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy. Lucius Annaeus Seneca Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #46 May 27, 2009 I wouldn't read it. She's pretty good at telling me things, and if she don't want to tell, I don't want to know.What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,384 #47 May 27, 2009 Quote Do I have to answer this? If this happens to you, Mike, I think you should scan every page, then post the scans here in BF."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
