davjohns 1 #51 July 2, 2009 Lots of other guys were having sex with my ex. That's why she' s the ex. So, no. Not jumping in that line.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iambeav2 0 #52 July 2, 2009 Eh, as long as you can keep it on a "Hey, ya wanna" kinda deal instead of doing the whole "I love you, date game" again. I mean, there are some ex's that I wouldn't mind hittin up again b/c it was some of the best sex ever...and then there's a few that I could really care less...sex wasn't really her forte...but hey, that musta been my fault right?...it's not the fact that you don't appreciate what you have until it's gone...it's the fact that you don't appreciate what you have until someone appreciates it for you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #53 July 2, 2009 Quote Quote Usually, I have interpreted it as something of a minor positive indicator when a guy has a couple of ex-girlfriends with whom he still maintains contact in one *platonic* way or another. At the far end of possible scenarios (which I’ve never dealt with personally), if *everyone* someone has ever dated turned out to be “a psycho bitch” or something similar in that person’s view, at some point I’d start to ask is it really always the other? A very interesting response.. I have mixed feelings about "sex with the ex"... And about maintaining friendship after a breakup... I've maintained friendships with a couple of exes - but only because for me it was always pretty platonic in the first place.. The ones I loved I still associate with hearbreak & I kinda want to keep it on that bitter-sweet level.. The guys I know who are friends with all their exes are serious slutts (and keep in touch mostly because they still consider the girls potential booty-calls..) But obviously the same can't be true for *everyone*... I've had sex with most of my exes after splitting up.. Sometimes it spelled BAD NEWS; in some cases it was better sex without any of the emotional upset of being in a bad relationship. Had sex a few times with the latest ex & it was lovely . But I decided in the new year that enough was enough.. It *was* stunting my emotional healing.."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #54 July 2, 2009 Quote The ones I loved I still associate with hearbreak & I kinda want to keep it on that bitter-sweet level.. .. Are you part Persian? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OlympiaStoica 0 #55 July 3, 2009 I guess I haven’t answered my own question … I am a very passionate person – I love with intensity and I hate with intensity … I don’t do anything with half measures. In those cases where heart break was involved, I’m not interested in having sex with the ex … I couldn’t handle it; there are too many emotions that would get in the way. When the breakup was civilized and we managed to remain friends – hmm … I don’t know. I haven’t done it (yet), but I find myself a bit tempted ... O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #56 July 6, 2009 Quote Quote The ones I loved I still associate with hearbreak & I kinda want to keep it on that bitter-sweet level.. .. Are you part Persian? Nope.. I just don't see the sense in re-living a painful hearbreak."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 135 #57 July 6, 2009 Quote I haven’t done it (yet), but I find myself a bit tempted ... O feel free to post video scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #58 July 6, 2009 Quote Quote Quote The ones I loved I still associate with hearbreak & I kinda want to keep it on that bitter-sweet level.. .. Are you part Persian? Nope.. I just don't see the sense in re-living a painful hearbreak. Yeah but to "keep" a bitter sweet thought close to ones heart. Such a Persian way of viewing of the world.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
incendium 0 #59 July 16, 2009 But think passion can either be in the moment or momentous or both feelings just complicate life, live it, love it, and leave it be v/r Paul "Never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
