Deresssion...man this kind of sucks

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And having a gorgeous x.......well let's say it's not going to be easy...if not impossible!

Maybe you should focus less on a woman's looks and more on whether your personalities are compatible.

OMG... not that...

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And having a gorgeous x.......well let's say it's not going to be easy...if not impossible!

Maybe you should focus less on a woman's looks and more on whether your personalities are compatible.

You do realize you are talking to a guy, right?

"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

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How many times have I said this? We need more John Mitchell's in this world.

No WE DONT, we need more VAL MITCHELLS in the worls SHE'S HOT and she's smart and clever, and she can make stuff, stuff that guys like. Like PIES and sewing stuff she does that too.

We SO need more Vals

You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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Yeah but the statement you made would mean more coming from another chick that isn't nearly as hot as you are.

See, I don't think of myself as hot. And I think those who know me would describe my personality as what truly shines through. I have had two children and have been heavier (which in mens eyes equates to unattractive). But no matter what my "shell" looks like I will always be the nice, sweet, sincere girl who likes to make people smile and laugh.

Which increases your hotness 10 fold.

Your a sweetie... Your going to be a sweetie with a sore ass if I have to kick it back to the dz!!!! Did you get your house?!

Kim Mills
USPA D21696
Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I

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Buuuut, they have a tendency to view child porn occasionally (a habit they don't try to keep secret). Nothing harmful... everyone has their weird fantasies I suppose. Would you be willing to overlook this flaw, because the rest of the person is so perfect? Would there be a second date?

You're comparing child porn to shallowness? That is a seriously fucked up analogy.

She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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Buuuut, they have a tendency to view child porn occasionally (a habit they don't try to keep secret). Nothing harmful... everyone has their weird fantasies I suppose. Would you be willing to overlook this flaw, because the rest of the person is so perfect? Would there be a second date?

You're comparing child porn to shallowness? That is a seriously fucked up analogy.

doesn't that fall under the "no no" rule not even in jest?

You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

[skyrider 0]

Words from a total stranger, that has seen "your" post for only a few months!........

Get the fuck off yer ass, get to the dropzone and LIVE.....Fuck this internet world..it isn't real!

OK everyone else, flame on...I have my flame resistant suit on!

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You know, I read this whole thing and sort of shake my head in disbelief... I think VanillaSkyGirl was dead on correct - it's your perspective that determines your reality.

I'm 38 - so even older than you! - recently divorced and having the time of my life dating. It. Is. Fun.

My dating pool is basically 27 to 43 year olds. Worrying about what dress size they are is sort of misguided, in my opinion. I haven't found "the perfect woman", but taking my time to find someone that I can date in a long term relationship shouldn't be a painful process...

Hey there, Skwrl~
Thank you. I am also 38. I have had amazing dates with the most wonderful men, so I agree with you, that dating is awesome. I don't understand why some people dread it. Nor do I understand why some worry so much about finding the right person or doing this or that in their lives before "X" years. It will all happen, when it's meant to happen. Life is an incredible adventure, so we should live it up!

As evidenced by these responses, many women (myself included) find men who are only willing to date a dress size a turn-off. I am a size 0 and have been my whole life, but I would not want to date someone, who only wants to date me, because of how I look. The men doing that need to give all women more credit.

The bottom line is that everyone wants to be respected and loved for who they are on the inside. No matter what a person looks like, looks fade, but what is in our hearts and minds remain. That is what you get to wake up with 30 years from now.

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How many times have I said this? We need more John Mitchell's in this world.

No WE DONT, we need more VAL MITCHELLS in the worls SHE'S HOT and she's smart and clever, and she can make stuff, stuff that guys like. Like PIES and sewing stuff she does that too.

We SO need more Vals

I like pie.

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

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Of course you can point the finger at others......but i dont think you can act any more like a grade school kid than you normally do

Nothing opens like a Deere!

You ignorant fool! Checks are for workers!

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Maybe you should focus less on a woman's looks and more on whether your personalities are compatible.

All chicks have their weird issues but it's a lot easier to tolerate them when she's hot.

You are only as strong as the prey you devour

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Comparing dating in early to late 30's for a guy to that of a girl is akin to the analogy of throwing a bullet and shooting one!
If the woman is at all in shape and at all stable just point at two friends tell them to fight to the death and the winner may ask you out.

That aside, I need to reorganize my life. The bitch may have not have taken a dime but killed my self esteem but I have to get it back or else she wins.

But my fear, and you women are going to hate this so brace yourself, is that I let go of my values and "settle" for a + sized girl. And with 75% of the female population + sized in my age bracket it is a strong possibility. I want my next long term relationship to blow my x out of the water. I want he to be a weapon. Smarter, kinder, move compassionate, and size six. I want my x to look over and my fat dumb happy face take a knife and carve out her heart and eat it.

I'm Persian, we don't play to the death, we play to the pain. And I want her to suffer........mix one half depression with one half desire for revenge and you get the perfect storm.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Wow dude... you should not even consider dating. You need to deal with issues of your marriage and let it go before trying to find someone new.

The thing is... your ex is going to look at your gorgeous, size six girl and think "thank God she has to deal with him and not me" and continue on with her life. No death, no pain, no suffering.

Kim Mills
USPA D21696
Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I

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Man, you really need to get sorted before you date anybody. You are not fit at this point to be a companion for anybody.

Some depression is going to accompany divorce. It does take time to get over. Sometimes it takes more than time, though. You might need to see a counselor, take medication, or take other measures. Exercise, sleep, new hobbies, and eating right are also very important. It is not a sign of weakness to seek help if you need it. I had to do all of those things during my divorce. Now, almost 2 years later, life is much better but it took time and help to get there.

"What if there were no hypothetical questions?"

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Actually what I was more referring to more than your looks...(you do have a very pretty face) but you're a female...and a skydiver. That already makes you a bad ass.

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I have had some extremely hot women in my past. But 99% were fucking mental and caused me more grief than pleasure. Sure banging some hot ass is fucking great, but obviously something OTHER than the sex broke you up. I found that my current (1st marriage) gives me minimal grief. To me that's more important than having a trophy on my arm to display to everyone so THEY can think I'm a bad ass by landing a hot bitch.

You have much to learn young padiwan. (Shah)

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"thank God she has to deal with him and not me" and continue on with her life. No death, no pain, no suffering.

Darling if I only had the time to tell you what I did for that POS.
Of the 10 or so girls I've gone out with over the past 4 months, some just coffee, most want to know why and how a guy can get divorced and not lose a thing so they ask about my x.
And I tell them the story, which I just don't have time to do here. And to a T each and every one of them has
1) Given me an alternate phone number incase their cell is off.....
2) Asked if I was free for a second date...hell one even put me down up to date three....that was fun...I like date #3
3) Have said "Wow, she's a moron."

Look I don't know darling, I just don't' know. I never wanted to get divorced, up until 6 months ago I saw myself growing old with my x and having a good life.
The divorce not only shocked me, but our friends and our family (mine and hers).

Ever have a motorcycle accident? It's a lot like that.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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"thank God she has to deal with him and not me" and continue on with her life. No death, no pain, no suffering.

Darling if I only had the time to tell you what I did for that POS.
Of the 10 or so girls I've gone out with over the past 4 months, some just coffee, most want to know why and how a guy can get divorced and not lose a thing so they ask about my x.
And I tell them the story, which I just don't have time to do here. And to a T each and every one of them has
1) Given me an alternate phone number incase their cell is off.....
2) Asked if I was free for a second date...hell one even put me down up to date three....that was fun...I like date #3
3) Have said "Wow, she's a moron."

Look I don't know darling, I just don't' know. I never wanted to get divorced, up until 6 months ago I saw myself growing old with my x and having a good life.
The divorce not only shocked me, but our friends and our family (mine and hers).

Ever have a motorcycle accident? It's a lot like that.

My ex and I divorced and he did not lose a thing either. It was all very civil and friendly. Why? Because we didn't have anger and resentment issues. We have no ill feeling and need for "revenge". We love our children and will do our best to co-parent showing that we respect each other even though we have both moved on. I didn't even think about dating for a year or more after we split up. Take some time to heal and recover.

These women you have dated are hearing a one sided story... of course they are sympathetic... but what does that have to do with your ex not giving a crap about who you are with...

Kim Mills
USPA D21696
Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I

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but what does that have to do with your ex not giving a crap about who you are with...
Because I know how that girl works.
And I know exactly what would cause her the greatest pain. Just the way she knew how to cause the most pain.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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but what does that have to do with your ex not giving a crap about who you are with...
Because I know how that girl works.
And I know exactly what would cause her the greatest pain. Just the way she knew how to cause the most pain.

And then she will flaunt her young, GQ model with a buff body around... and the games will be never ending. You will both continue on in your miserable little world. Move on and enjoy life. It can be a whole lotta fun!

Kim Mills
USPA D21696
Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I

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Hey, I'm the young guy with the GQ body!
And soon I'll have an MBA and move from a federal job to a private job where my chair will not be held togehter with things i brought from home.

I'll survive. But for now ..... it hurt..... and by it....it's the intangible the intrinsic the soul

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Comparing dating in early to late 30's for a guy to that of a girl is akin to the analogy of throwing a bullet and shooting one!
If the woman is at all in shape and at all stable just point at two friends tell them to fight to the death and the winner may ask you out.

That aside, I need to reorganize my life. The bitch may have not have taken a dime but killed my self esteem but I have to get it back or else she wins.

But my fear, and you women are going to hate this so brace yourself, is that I let go of my values and "settle" for a + sized girl. And with 75% of the female population + sized in my age bracket it is a strong possibility. I want my next long term relationship to blow my x out of the water. I want he to be a weapon. Smarter, kinder, move compassionate, and size six. I want my x to look over and my fat dumb happy face take a knife and carve out her heart and eat it.

I'm Persian, we don't play to the death, we play to the pain. And I want her to suffer........mix one half depression with one half desire for revenge and you get the perfect storm.

The opposite of love is not hate...it's indifference.

Let it go man, let it go.

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

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Take some time to deal with your issues, then let it go.

You have baggage. Those girls that seem sympathetic are just being nice. You're never going to find a partner if you keep carrying it around.

Be yourself!
MooOOooOoo

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Take some time to deal with your issues, then let it go.

You have baggage. Those girls that seem sympathetic are just being nice. You're never going to find a partner if you keep carrying it around.

Your right doll......I have a lot to work on.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Yeah but the statement you made would mean more coming from another chick that isn't nearly as hot as you are.

See, I don't think of myself as hot. And I think those who know me would describe my personality as what truly shines through. I have had two children and have been heavier (which in mens eyes equates to unattractive). But no matter what my "shell" looks like I will always be the nice, sweet, sincere girl who likes to make people smile and laugh.

Which increases your hotness 10 fold.

Your a sweetie... Your going to be a sweetie with a sore ass if I have to kick it back to the dz!!!! Did you get your house?!

Yes! I got the house!! It's what has been occupying my weekends. There are a few pics on FB if you want to check it out. I love it!!! You better come visit, got a big fenced in back yard so bring Quincy!

And Shah, I agree with the others, the best "revenge" you could have is to be happy with yourself and love who you are as an individual. Then start dating again.