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Nataly

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Some guys do note the early "milestones."

I've mentioned 1, 3 and 6 month "anniversaries" of first date, first kiss or first night together.
Not a big deal, just something like "It doesn't seem like it's been a month today."

It has gotten responses ranging from "who cares" to "wow, I didn't realize it and it's nice that you did" to "I know. I was thinking about it, but wasn't sure if I should say anything."

And if I get hollered at for trying to be nice, especially if I know I didn't do anything wrong and she is just venting because she feels miserable than I have been known to get flowers or something.

It's just to say "I know you feel lilke crap and I hope you feel better soon, I hope this helps."

Tell him you're sorry you lashed out and that the flowers were very nice.

If you yelled and you apologize then I'll bet very heavily that he will accept.
I would.
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I'm going to STFU and STFD on this one.

no you are going to be your usual antagonistic self. other wise you would not have posted anything.
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
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I've read all 29 posts and think nobody has come up with a proper explanation for the huge amound of roses presented to you. The "one month anniversary" is just a coincidence.

Your blowing up at him caught him totally by suprise, which is usually the case, and he is sitting there wondering what the hell he did to deserve that outburst. He then ran out of the house and bought lots of roses in a classic sentimental display of affection in the hopes of soothing the ruffled feathers, still not knowing what the hell just happened. He knows to please the lady you have to please the lady.

A blowjob would be a nice method of payment, I do believe.
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I'e known my wife for 22 years and I have a simple rule for sending flowers. Don't do it so often that it becomes a routine - "Oh, another bunch of flowers." but not so infrequently that the first words out of her mouth are "What the fuck have you done wrong!"

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I'e known my wife for 22 years and I have a simple rule for sending flowers. Don't do it so often that it becomes a routine - "Oh, another bunch of flowers." but not so infrequently that the first words out of her mouth are "What the fuck have you done wrong!"

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From a woman's perspective, there is no such thing as too often to receive flowers. Mrowc6 brings me flowers whenever the current bunch is shot. We've been together 30 yrs and I still appreciate always having fresh flowers in the house. It's not alway roses, though. Seasonal flowers, or just wildflowers bought at the local produce stand are just as beautiful. :)
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I'e known my wife for 22 years and I have a simple rule for sending flowers. Don't do it so often that it becomes a routine - "Oh, another bunch of flowers." but not so infrequently that the first words out of her mouth are "What the fuck have you done wrong!"

;)



From a woman's perspective, there is no such thing as too often to receive flowers. Mrowc6 brings me flowers whenever the current bunch is shot. We've been together 30 yrs and I still appreciate always having fresh flowers in the house. It's not alway roses, though. Seasonal flowers, or just wildflowers bought at the local produce stand are just as beautiful. :)


From another woman's perspective, (i.e. My Wife) Don't Buy me DEAD STUFF it's a waste of money
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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From another woman's perspective, (i.e. My Wife) Don't Buy me DEAD STUFF it's a waste of money




TOTALLY agree with your wife but there is no way in hell I'm saying that to my boyfriend... The reason is simple: I *loved* the gesture/thought, and the last thing I want is to discourage him when he's gone and done something kind out of affection. In time as he gets to know me better he will understand that gestures don't have to cost money to be appreciated. :):P

BobMoore: your post had me laughing out loud!!! :D:D
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Just like "first annual" does not exist, as "annual" means it is something that is being repeated each year.

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Thank you, thank you, thank you. That usage has annoyed me for decades.
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